I was also interested in the poly questionnaire; and we have met at least briefly in pub (on spikeylady's birthday & I think another time or two as well?) & have assorted friends in common... But of course will not be offended or whatever if you don't add me, etcetc. Though I think I will nab the poly questionnaire off someone else's LJ & fill it in anyway, because it's interesting! (& it struck me as possibly a useful way to check on my thoughts on the subject)